Parenting
Should not we all be able to have a little house of grassland life? The big challenge this week is whether Bobby Sue should cheat on the Prairie County Fair. Later Colt from Bobbie Sue gets the opportunity to win against her fraudulent enemies and Billie Bob in the archive. You know what it will be. A wise father and a loving support wife confront Bobby Sue. They explain that misconduct is wrong and you better win more than cheating. Later, of course, Bobbie Sue's contract has a big group's hug and commerce. So, she decided to follow the rules. Then guess what! That is correct! On the day of the county fair, Colt of Billy Bob just falls into the pit of hell! After all, Colt of Bobbie Sue eventually will win the first prize ribbon. Everyone lives happily.
Let's see real life. What if my parents were not together because my lazy cheating husband left her? He decided to connect with some hot blonde at the Prairie Salon. What if we did not have enough money to take care of the prize money first at first (for the lesson about what is not being deceived)? If Bobbie Sue was doing so hard and resisting, did she have to sell a terrible mare for a crack? Indeed, she did not care about anything unless she could smoke in a pipe. What if my parents got a massive battle on cheating? After that, his father got angry, grabbed a whiskey bottle and got drunk, took him to a police car in John, drank and went to prison.
It probably will not happen on Prairie on the Prairie. But bad things happen to ordinary people like you and me. We act according to the rules, and the unlawful culprit Billie Bob pays the prize. So, somehow our Colt will escape. How is that? I thought that this story is a good person. I thought I had a plot line for my life and my family. I have planned a nice and cute story, with attractive and talented people playing all the important roles. I expected a nice happy ending. After that, I can not change the Jerry Springer & # 39; channel.
This is a hard core life. I am sorry that it is not something like "Brady Bunch" or "Walton & # 39; s". You should be able to solve life problems in 30 minutes. In real life, often means a mean person, contrary to one's own will. Some of the most talented people and those who give it are greeted by the stage. Sometimes, we sleep on the horse's head in bed. It is not personal but simply shows business.
So, how do we act in front of our families when we do not make a striking role? Do you see what they will show us? Certainly, as we have house wisdom and Bilususby's wisdom, we want our family to see us. What happens if a family mother, such as Florence-Henderson, has not kissed you at the entrance when he came home? (Yes, I really related to it.) If you have great things for you, most of us go home to Alice at home and she is working. I noticed something to the families of these television sets. They all live in an evil palace, there are no great caregivers, unemployed people, and there are many children in clothes. They also have enough time to sit down and talk on the sofa.
Well, that is just an imaginary family entertainment. So, why are you having such a pressure? I must play a responsible loving mother. I have to play fun, productive, wise father. My role is to succeed, pay bills and dominate my life. I can not lose my mood with the banknote collector - it's not in the script. My partner has no complaints. It never happens to Mr. Brady. Is our real personality depressed, lonely, or just mediocre horny, can we act well with it? Unfortunately, it is called character fault and reality. But can you remove the mask to make the family show the real person?
When I got married, I expected to play the role of a productive and wise husband. I have a small house with a fence, a dog, a cat, and a wife. Please nurture my children with good fashionable values. And the broken ball of my life broke through my wall. Divorce, bitterness, confusion, depression shook my world. what? I did not sign the role of a single divorced parent. It was not in my script! My show was held and a new show was held. So what do I do? I stepped on my feet, packed the trailer, did not you come back? I know that it is not dealing with humiliation, but a lot of people are doing it.
So what should I do now? It is an act that did not affect me, it is stoic and insensible. I'm sorry, I will not get into an actor. The good thing is that my children do not need to act on me anyway. Even when my performance is bad, they never shoot me. In reality, I have a contract with children. My role is single or married father. Even if it is just a "support" role, that is part of me. I committed myself to them forever. That contract will not be broken for any reason. I dislike seeing my divided parents and lose interest in my children. They sign up with other family members and they are not playing with them now. My new job is to stop acting and always act as my father 's father.
Lessons in life
1. Accept your role. We all want a star and a producer of our own show. But in most cases, we are not. When we have children, it seems that others are paying attention while cleaning and paying cast parties. So what! That is our role. It may have been going on for years and you may not even be invited to the party. Perhaps the children may live with their mother's new boyfriend and may call him a father. Oh! Make sure you know what you are doing before it happens. It is not his role. It belongs to your father. The same applies to mothers. You are a mother. There is no other one else. A real parent is still a child's eyes star. They are your dedicated fans. Well, someone else is living a better life now. So what. Are you proud that we can not play a part-time role over the weekend? But, "I want to become a star or I want to forget" Our children do not care about such things. They think that mom and dad want to stay in their lives. They want their parents to appear for them. We have choices. We can keep on living or end it. But quitting is just selfish and lazy. We need to appear for at least for them. We have talent and are blessed with talent as parents. We need to act like a parent.
2. We will stop acting when we accept our role. Anyway, I believe we can play ourselves more. It is true. Please be honest with regards to your weaknesses, failures, and sorrows with your children. People, they can see through the BS anyway. They are not parents of a complete Stepford, so they will not dismiss you or divorce you. So probably we messed up our lives, perhaps they may have a criminal record. Well, is it safe to be around children? Then please enter their lives. Please let me see the challenges in your actual life. Please make use of mistakes and let them know, "If I finish _______, I will not get into this confusion." "If I did not _______, I would have been in a better place, but will learn from our mistakes, unfortunately than from our mistakes rather than spending our lives Good to learn. "Find yourself about life" At least we have fulfilled our role, there is no regret, our Emmy award is simply a parent. & # 39;
