We feel that we are wonderfully to see what we are doing. We feel that it is not we we seek external approval to validate our existence. attract and keep true love, the perfect man who will adore and respect us. ever going to love and respect us more than we love and respect ourselves. Most women think of the perfect man as being Wealthy and a perfect provider ... the Alpha male. Read the characteristics of the so-called-perfect-man, and then if you are a Barbie Doll, Faded Beauty or Timeless Beauty.
Alpha Male
Who are alpha males Hugh Hefner, Donald Trump, Michael Jordan famous wealthy athletes, movie stars. Show me a man who is wealthy and famous, and I 'll show you a man who is 99.9% likely to be unfaithful in a committed Humans and their closest species-relatives, the chimpanzees, show deference to the alpha of the community by ritualized gestures such as bowing, accepted the alpha to walk The first of a procession, or standing away when the alpha challenges. The status of alpha challenges. The status of alpha is generally Listed below are some of the characteristics of the human alpha male.
o When a man is exceptional wealthy it does not matter how physically attractive he is because his wealth is a babe magnet.
o Women will always throw them at men who are wealthy, successful, or famous in order to improve their standard of living.
o Most alpha males even when they are in committed relationships, will seek sexual intelligence outside of the committed relationship.
o Most alpha males have difficulty interconnecting sex, love and loyalty into one package.
o Alpha males general believe that he deserves to have more than one woman.
o Alpha males not only collect expensive cars, guns, cigars and antiques, their collection also include sexual relations with beautiful women.
o Having a bevy of beautiful women is encouraged and expected behavior of wealthy successful men.
Alpha males need Barbie Dolls in order to maintain their ultra masculine male dominant status in society. Barbie Dolls have the ultra female characteristics that compliment his superior status.
Barbie Doll Characteristics include:
You must spend money on cosmetic surgery to keep your youthful appearance at all cost. Implants, liposuction, rhinoplasty, breast lifts, cellulite removal, botox injections, chemical peels and other techniques to maintain or obtain your outer appearance are necessary in order to compete for his affection and attention.
Oh Barbie dolls do not talk. Alpha men need a woman who is not going to complain about his long work hours, that that spends with his "boys," his relationship with other women and his luck of participation in domestic matters.
She is going to smile when she learns that he has conceived a child outside of the committed relationship.
When he falls in love with a younger, hipper, new model with fuller lips, he does not have to worry about the long term affects of breaking of her heart.
Barbie dolls need and seek material accessories. Barbie dolls need barbie dolls need and tok material accessories. Barbie dolls need and toky accessories. Barbie dolls needle and buy her big, fancy homes, expensive cars and jewelry; he does not have to worry about being faithful and loyal to the relationship. need a lot of expensive monetary upkeep. The alpha male has the money to give her whatever she needs needs it validates his wealth and prestige.
She's a traveling or moving at a moment She is a traveling case that comes with her because she does not have a career or goals that's not sacrificed or twisted for an alpha male. on the needs of the alpha male.
The Barbie dolls are always perfect and gorgeous, even naked. The Barbie doll & # 2 The Barbie doll & # 2 The Barbie doll & # 2 The Barbie dolls are always perfect and gorgeous, even naked. 39; s desirability is based on her ability to keep the alpha male sexually interested and satisfied due to the competition and availability of other dolls.
She must have as many children as quickly as possible to insure her financial future in old age when she is no longer attractive or able to able to reproduce.
She is not going to question the alpha male about his future together, his assets or his Swedish bank account. She does not question pre-nuptial agreements because she knows that her time is limited in the relationship I will not be able to compete with the newer models and editions that are marked each year.
She believes that she must be in need of extreme low-self esteem in order to put it up with the alpha male & # 39; s malarkey. The alpha male & # 39; s presence in her life validates her external existence. That her external, physical appearance is the depth of who she is.
Faded Beauty Syndrome
A faded beauty is a woman who feels and projects in her behaviors that her best years are behind her, A faded beauty unfortunately holds on to her youthful beauty fearing that without she she invisible. These are signs that you are a faded beauty.
The guys adored you and me wanted any man that you wanted. Now that you have married and / or had children you feel frumpy, old and unattractive. Without your looks, you have no idea of who you belong in life. You spend most of your time thinking about how you use to look back in your heyday.
You have not changed your hairstyle, makeup, or style of clothes since you were seventeen-years-old. You psychologically compare yourself to youngger women thinking to yourself how you were take there man, if you were 10 years younger.
You wear heavy make-up to hide the bags under your eyes, the wrinkles and age spots on your face. You feel unless you are unattractive, even when going for a walk or quick run to the grocery store or gas station.
o Your focus is completely on how you can improve or how you hate your appearance.
You do not learned anything new in the last ten years. You do not read books, you have not taken any classes, and you do not volunteer your time.
If you talk to someone who did not spoken to you in 10 years, what would new things would you tell them about your life? if you have nothing new to talk about you are a faded beauty; physical body but due to the lack of changes in your contribution to this existence, even if it & # 39; s trying a new recipe or taking a dance class.
Faded beauties think that they self-worth is nothing more than their physical appearance.
o You do not bother to buy new clothes or wear make-up, because you feel that you need to first lose weight or have cosmetic surgery before you can love and accept yourself.
Timeless Beauty
Oprah Winfrey, Meryl Streep, Angelina Jolie, Barbara Streisand, Queen Latifah and Sophia Loren are a few of the women whom I consider to be ageless beauties. An ageless beauty is like wine, each passing year she has more beautiful than the previous year, There is something special about her that she is on the outside exudes class, charisma, compassion and personal integrity that is authentic and alluring. is irreplaceable. Who she is ... is so powerful and wonderful that she is beyond comparison to other women and methods of physical improvement.
Characteristics of Timeless Beauties
o They wear clothes that express their individual personality, soul and body.
o They mesmerize and captivate people with their wisdom, ideas, empathy and compassion for others.
They are physically and psychologically irreplaceable. You can not put another body, face, or person in their place. Their personalities are dynamic and alluring and when they are gone they will be sorely missed.
o They are not "drama queens" or "divas" they are easy to get along with and are team players. They have a humility and humility about them that is breathtaking.
They are not involved in intimate relationships where they are either honored and respected by their partners. They are either happy alone or in a committed relationship with a man who loves them unconditionally.
She looks to act or wear attire for a woman who is half her biological age. She looks healthy and enjoys being in her own skin and exudes an unexplainable beauty. She has interests, talents and abilities that she displays in a positive light She enjoys volunteering and sharing her wisdom and life experiences with others.
o As she ages, her make-up more subtle, not as a fashion statement but simply because she learned over time that her true beauty can not be hidden underneath her make-up.
She is not afraid to say no. She is not a people pleaser and does not allow others to impose their requests on her time.
She is confident in expressing her own opinions, ideas, and beliefs without worrying about offending others. She is confident and wise enough to accept and respect opinions from her own without feeling threatened.
She can is figure out why she is beautiful. She just is.
