"Pain is not hurt," he says, Dalton of the movie Darwin. I love the movie, I love the quotation. The truth is painful but the temporary and manageable wounds bring success!
Last year, I had the most wonderful experience at Denver and the Minnesota Success Summit. Do you know that for the people who gave me a fortunate thing, as time went on, I was focused on teaching skills, techniques and strategies to get rich real estate? I made a presentation to the live audience for the first time in 2006 and taught how to make money to thousands of investors. I wrote countless articles, reports, books. I love to notice people who have approached me, mail, mail, or helped change my life. Someone told me that my book will help you add 50,000 dollars in the past year alone. You may say that I am passionate and are being moved to help people reach their goals. And now I understand that a very important part of this mission was missing. Most people need more than skills, techniques and strategies. Many people can get all the information they need to earn their wealth. Most people need to understand what they actually need to succeed.
I tried something new at this year's success season. I tried to break the fear that prevented us from taking action and to provide technology to overcome fear and move forward. I had a lot of fun in the presentation, but it also filled me with a lot of emotions from the audience. Several people said I touched them. And they were an accurate presentation they needed to hear in order to start the investment. One of the reasons some people were shedding tears because I know they are not taking action to avoid pain. It is difficult for someone to realize. My guess is that people make their presentation difficult on their own. That is not a point. The point is, now they understand what they are doing to restore themselves so that they can implement strategies to promote themselves. The past is the past and serves only as an educator for the upcoming greatness.
When participating in the presentation, we found that our decision is based on one of two dynamics. Pursuit of pleasure and avoidance of pain. We can talk about the pain being a stronger force and easily dominate decision making. The idea of experiencing pain, even if not physical, is horrible. That is due to the fear of stopping us.
What is important to understand is that the pain supports us. Success is developed by experiencing pain. When you look back at the time you will see that all successful people must finish the pain before victory and all people experience what is considered mass pain. Nobody can escape from this fact. To succeed the successful people is that they can accept and learn it. If you also start to embrace psychological pain and reflect it, you can grow and succeed more and more. Those who fear most of us, such as being embarrassed, being rejected, are making us stronger, smarter and better.
As I go on in the middle of this year, I will write more articles about the fear of being attacked by hope that more people will start real estate skills, techniques and strategies that we will teach I will. For now I would like you to understand why you make decisions. I want you to understand that fear is based on your attempt to avoid pain, so you can peel off fear and focus on the actual results of your decision. Obviously, you may feel confused and painful by failure, disappointment, rejection, but that is not a bad thing. In fact, that is necessary. Focusing on the pleasure you get from doing what you fear will help you move forward. And if you try to do something it might work.
