So Drew and I are sitting at the North Point Cafe overlooking the beautiful Sausalito Bay this morning. We dedicated this weekend to Marin and I saw that we wanted a year from the next 6 months (since I became a fluent hula hoop, more wind surfing To do). More important is to design sacred promise rituals and a larger view of life. After having started a delicious breakfast in the morning toast in the morning, I was invited to The Depot (book store and cafe) and I got a collage board magazine of our vision. He has taught the schedule of the day while supporting each other with our personal life goals and mutually a creative vision and ensuring that we take a relaxing break.
Are you fed up? In 1999, wandering around Soho, my legs were surprised and I was looking for a fixed shop ideal for printing wedding invitations. I decided that they were exquisite, ingenious, and completely "my essence". (Clearly, the complete indifference to my former fiancé 's wedding plan was not yet alarming). Then I found it. Kate's paper way.
It was a perfect place and I would be able to emboss puppet sketches I had before the invitation. Dogwoods, are they beautiful? Even if I had never seen a live, they did not have to be in the vicinity of the wedding's Point Reyes, and even in September it did not blossom. Saplings bloom in the spring. No, I just wanted them in the invitation.
I was like a cracker Martha Stewart.
I said myself, "I need to have real abalone trim and shell napkin holders" and say that everyone should talk about what they inscribe to the silver mint julep cup which they get as a gift It will be.
It was female pornography. It was a script. The behavior, which was not unique to the image, my consciousness, played himself like a bad record. I did not know at that time that when you step into a specific cultural composition, you are available for all of the profound beliefs. There is the same thing with our age in our culture. And I went completely unconsciously and did not fight tens of thousands of dollars without understanding the marriage industry nor did I understand my own way of thinking about what I meant at that time.
I went home from the graduate school overnight and felt some vegetables for dinner and I felt my face transformed into my mother (the way my arm was moved, I am my Yes, my partner loved me deeply, but I really did not want to get married because we were unconsciously recalling what parents think of "marriage." We The relationship was a "key" that helped make each other more perfectly expressed and he was often criticized as a "friend of mine" by a friend or an enemy.Well, he decided his needs I gave myself a wonderful key to understand how to respect more, but marriage was miserable, my parents are still married, but the script of marriage was alive = surviving. I felt like my mother's prison, but they were immigrants I believed that as long as its partnership lasts, I believe that it can survive no matter how painful it is.The substitute for them is death.It is not a fun record to play repeatedly ...
Spiritually speaking, many of us had a family background with dysfunction. The unconscious script we absorb is part of the spiritual challenge to overcome. And although the work to do here is not at all a job, I am a person who can enlarge myself and enjoy wonderful partnerships and love. But we are hugging our cultural composition for the life of love. Because it does not know that the death of the reason based on the ego in relationship is to open the door for the majesty the universe has.
Here, I will show you some hints that will help you to see whether you are married, married or not, whether you are suitable for you, by clearly looking at the cultural edification of marriage in the unconscious.
1. Make sure there are no resistance on both sides and you are not married. Let's get marriage counseling before marriage. And if the partner is still pulling his heel, why do you have to ask yourself whom you do not want what you want? That's because you believe that some of you must be a difficult task. That men / women are afraid of commitment, and you are & # 39; Other than that? Are you doing this to prove something to others or yourself? Unlike athletic and business customs, there is a fear that it is related to trust relationships and bigger compatibility issues, and if the marriage question is not settled before getting married, it can hardly be solved.
2. Also, a reasonable meaning really spends time exploring something for each person and makes a simple but powerful question: What does this mean to you? What is your fear? Also, can you clear easily when light hit? Who in your community would like to be there, why? How do you express this ceremony in response to both visions of your union's celebration? Know that if there is resistance to both members participating in the event collaboration, it may mean that the event is very different from different parties.
3. Search for rituals and rituals that may not have marriage duties. As I said, marriage as a cultural construct contains wonderful statistics that 50% of people get divorced. Everyone loves Raymond. To address the existing negative programming, please fill in an example of how beautiful marriage and partnership will look into your consciousness.
So Drew and I moved to a 6 bedroom house in a recently renovated Arts & Crafts style. A large communal life is what I would like to call it. We did not have the burden of owning a house and wanted a big place without having an evening filled with funny conversation during dinner. One of the members of our house is an interior decorator, around her genius, her house's title is beauty of the house. We are always looking forward to arranging her weekly flowers. A few weeks ago, I walked to find a luxurious white flower branch. They blew my breath away. When I heard what she was doing to her she said "Dog Tree from My Backyard". At that moment, I heard that the universe says "You were dreaming, I was not just a right friend".
