First off I am sure you are feeling very lucky that someone invited you to their house for this intimate affair The main things to remember should be pretty much common sense to you, but we will go over them quickly just to be sure.
DO NOT BE LATE!
You do not have give it late, but do not show up early either. If you are there early wait in the car for a few minutes or drive around the block. You do they will always give give you a time when they are open to welcome their guests.
1. Bring a Hostess Gift
Remember, the hosts went through a lot of work (and probably expired) to setup this party ... cleaned up the house ... made or bought food ... have ice and probably mixes available. The least you can can bring them a little something, even a bottle of wine will do.
2. Bring More Than You Will Drink and Leave The Rest For Your Hosts
I remember a time (and I say this jumping it does not exist) not make me sound too old) when you would have a party at your house to restock your bar.
3. Do not Get Drunk And Make A Fool Of Yourself
Now with number 2 above I do not think you are okay to drink as much as you want. Even if you are not driving never get drunk at a swingers house party. If you have to get drunk to have a good time I sure do not want to remember the good time you had? I sure do.
4. Bring Food (even just something small)
Either have something to serve it in or on. Either have something to serve it in or on. Never bring anything that needs to be prepared at the party that will create undue stress for your hosts who hopefully have everything already planned out .
5. Dress In Theme, If There Is One.
If it is a theme why not have some fun and try to dress suitately. It helps you fit in and adds to the conversation. sex party so dress sexy .
6. Do not Forget To Bring Your Own Condoms, And Dispose Of Any Used Ones Properly.
Also very important, NEVER leave used condoms (or wrappers for that matter) laying around for some matter else to clean up.. Find a trash can and get rid of it.
7. Do not Forget To Tidy Up The Bed.
The next person used the room after you will appreciate the thought, and so will your hosts.
8. Follow Any House Rules.
Most parties have a set of "house rules" to do with anything you have any rooms where the doors should stay open or if you can close the door, etc. Make sure to find out what the rules are early in the evening and be sure to follow them.
9. Do not Gawk Or Open Closed Doors
Do not gawk in the doorway if the door is open, either move on or ask if it is important to remember that the is is open mean it is an open invite to join them. A little look while slowly walking by is okay though.
If the door is closed, move on. Do not open it, or knock on it ... just imagine what you will be interfering.
That is a quick overview of some of the things to do to invite back to a Swingers House party. Everything here is common sense to me, but not everyone has had the experiences I have had. is probably a good thing, even though I had a really good time learning all this out for myself.
